Fathers all over the world are
experiencing very low ratings as demonstrated by the poor support for “Father
Day” --- celebrated June 19, 2016. Most children would be happy to celebrate
the contributions of their own father, but in several cases, especially among the
African Americans, dads are nowhere to be found.
We cannot overemphasize the
important role that fathers play in the family structure, including satisfying
the welfare and development needs of their children. Nonetheless, our fathers
are facing several challenges that are hindering their ability to be “good
fathers.” On the other hand, there are perhaps an equal number of “worthless”
fathers who are very uncaring and refuse to man-up to their responsibilities.
Equally, to be a father one must
have the necessary resources -- human and capital -- to take care of the financial
needs of their children. In plain language, it takes plenty of money to raise a
child from birth to 18 years of age. Therefore, the
unemployed and other resource-poor men should first consider where the money is
coming from before impregnating any woman.
With an extremely high level of
testosterone and other stimulating hormones engulfing the mind of a young
unemployed man with limited resources, having fun with as many ladies may be
his only outlet to demonstrate his true manhood. Perhaps as the old adage says,
“the devil finds work for idle hands.”
Conversely, we will never have a
perfect situation, as there will always be men with sufficient resources – “nuff
money” -- who refuse to take care of their children. Some of these men only
respond to the harsh penalty of the child support courts or other legal
interventions.
Up to 60 percent of African
American families are headed by single females. Black men constitute nearly 1
million of the total 2.3 million incarcerated population and have nearly six
times the incarceration rate of whites. Furthermore, several studies have
concluded that more black males are in prison than are enrolled in colleges and
universities.
While we are not expecting every
black man to attend college, we are very concerned that the so-called school-to-prison
pipeline is larger than the school-to-college pipeline.
Therefore, starting at the
kindergarten level to high school, a better education program for African
American boys could be the solutions towards empowering and producing better
fathers.
After all, education is always
the most important institution towards social mobility and improved living
condition.
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